Sunday, June 29, 2008
cooking
Thanks in advance!
my summer to-do list
- move the girls downstairs *
- clean out the girls' old room, go through all the toys and books and organize them/give away what we don't need anymore *
- clean out all the closets in the house (*so far I've done 5...2 more to go)
- type six weeks of lesson plans for my sub during my maternity leave
- do A LOT of scrapbooking (I've done some)
- get all the baby stuff out of the attic *
- wash all the baby stuff and set up the baby's room (about 1/2 way done with that)
- cook and freeze at least 20-30 meals so I don't have to cook during the first few weeks after the baby is born
- play with my kids a lot... take them places, go swimming, read to them, arrange playdates, etc. (I've done some of this... I've been terrible about arranging playdates though)
- get 20 or more FHE lessons ready to go so that I don't have to think about it once I go back to work... also, start having FHE regularly. we aren't very good at this.
- clean and organize my office/library/scrapbooking room (this is a huge project because my office is my "dumping ground" and is terribly unorganized... I have yet to begin this)
- go through all my scrapbook pages I've done during the past year and get them organized chronologically and put them into albums (one for Michelle, one for Ella and one for the family) (*about 90% complete with this)
- organize my files at school (*about 75% complete with this)
- read a lot of books (*for me an ongoing project, but one that I'm doing well at... I always read a lot)
- have book club meet at my house in July
- work the last week of July... we have meetings and planning time for the week before school starts. I plan to work that week. I am also hoping/planning to be at school on the first day of school, August 4, (along with my sub) to meet my new students and help the sub get the year off to a good start.
So, as you can see, I still have a lot to do. Overall, I'm pleased with what I've accomplished so far, but I still have quite a bit to do in the next 6 weeks. I know it will go fast. I'm sure my six weeks off with my new baby will go way too fast also. The one good thing is that when I come off my maternity leave, I'll only have 3 1/2 or 4 weeks until I get a 2 week break. So I can get a break again not too long after I go back. That will help, I'm sure.
I'm at 34 1/2 weeks now. Had an appointment this week. Everything continues to look good. The baby is growing, I've gained about 14 pounds, my blood pressure is good, etc. Honestly, other than being quite warm, I can't complain. I feel pretty good. I mean there are minor discomforts, but I have energy and I'm excited. And the girls are so excited to have a new sister.
this past week
Last Sunday: My dad and grandparents came to dinner at our house. We had a nice visit. My poor grandparents are getting quite elderly and it is sad to see them decline. My grandma has an incredible memory about anything that happened years ago, but her short term memory is shot. I told her 3 times that Suzy (my sister) was in Alaska for her marathon. Each time she seemed surprised that Suzy was already done with her marathon. So sad. And my grandpa has a very hard time getting around. It is so sad to see them get old.
Monday: Alyssa came over to play with the girls. She wants practice babysitting and so she comes over and plays with the girls while I get stuff done. She is wonderful. And she can use it as a service project for young women's personal progress. I was excited when her mom called a couple of weeks ago and asked if we'd let her come and do this once a week, and she has been great.
Also the girls and I went to the park with my Aunt Elaine.
Tuesday: The girls had preschool and I went to my school and organized most of my files. Very productive. Then on Tuesday afternoon, the girls and I went to their edible art class. They made their own personal pizzas with faces and breadsticks.
I had young women's that night... the trek hoedown. I think trek will be so much fun for them. I kind of wish I could go... but it's a week and a half after my baby is due.
Wednesday: Alyssa came over again and we went to Kearns swimming pool. It was fun, but it was a pretty windy day and poor Michelle got so cold. She has no body fat to keep her warm. Somehow I feel less self conscious in a bathing suit being pregnant than I do when I'm not. I guess I feel like I can blame the extra pounds on the baby (even the ones not on my stomach).
Thursday: The girls had preschool. I started babysitting one of Alfredo's friend's baby. She is 8 months old and I'm now babysitting her on Tuesdays and Thursdays for the months of July and August. She is a really good baby. The girls loved playing with her.
Thursday night I had book club. We read I am the messenger by Marcus Zusak. Had a great discussion and Becky turned it into kind of a game. To go with the book, she put questions on playing cards and if you got an ace, you won a prize that related to the book. It was very clever.
Friday: Michelle and Ella got to go play at Jayda's house. Jaylynn watched them for me while I went shopping with Gerri for all the food for girls camp (which is tomorrow through Thursday.) They had a lot of fun with Jayda.
Alfredo and I went out to dinner that night and went to see Get Smart. We both thought it was very funny. The twins, Ashley and Lindsey, babysat for us. The girls love them. They were so excited all day that Ashley and Lindsey were coming. It was nice for us to go out together for a little while.
Saturday: The girls and I went to the library. Alfredo cleaned the carpets in the whole house. They look so much better. We started getting stuff set up in the baby's room.
We all went to Kodi's birthday party. It was a lot of fun. After the girls went to sleep, Alfredo and I watched The Bucket List.
a busy, fun, productive week...
Thursday, June 26, 2008
run away
So I got her to calm down and I said, "Michelle, what does it mean to run away?" She said she didn't know but that her friend Jenni (who is 8 and lives across the street) told her that she should tell us that if we weren't nice to her then she would run away. I hugged her and explained what it meant and that if she ran away she wouldn't get to see Mommy or Daddy or Ella anymore. She got a scared look on her face and said she didn't mean it; she was just mad.
Alfredo had a little talk with Jenni about it today.
I remember once "running away from home" when I was about 8 or 9. I hid outside under a bush for what seemed like forever to me. When I finally came inside, no one had even noticed I was missing. :) I didn't know whether to be angry or sad. And I felt like they should know, but didn't want to just announce it. I don't remember what I did, but I know I never tried it again.
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
a few insights about Michelle
Michelle is somewhat of a daredevil/risk taker. She learned to walk at 9 months (as did Ella), and soon after she was running and climbing on everything. She taught herself to ride a 2 wheel bike. She can go across our monkey bars by herself. She enjoys fast rides and can't wait to try out a real roller coaster with her daddy. She loves to swing and often worries me with how high she swings.
She likes to know when things are going to happen and to know what the "schedule" is for the day and the week. She is still trying to fully comprehend the concepts of time, and so she wants everything translated into days. How many days until Kodi's party? How many days until the baby is born? How many days until grandma comes to visit?
She understands a lot of Spanish, but she will rarely speak it. Sometimes when I (or others) try to say something to her in Spanish, she'll say, "Say it in real." (meaning English)
I think I have shared this on the blog before, but when Michelle was little she had the best cry. She totally trilled her r's as she cried. I've never heard any baby/toddler cry like she did. I always knew when it was my baby crying.
As I've mentioned, she loves to pose for the camera.
She loves her mommy and daddy. She is so happy that I'm home for the summer and asks often when I have to go back to work. How many more days do you get to stay home?
She knows her letters and numbers. But for some reason when counting, she always skips thirteen. :) She loves to write. She loves to be read to. She likes to play rhyming games.
She has an incredible memory. She often will remember things that happened months ago (or even years) and say, "remember when ...." I am often surprised by what triggers her memories and how far back they go.
As a baby, she was a very picky eater. It took months to get her to eat solid foods. (although she's always loved spaghetti, as you can tell from the photo above :)) She stopped nursing at about 2 months. She would arch away from me and scream. So after a week or so of that, I gave up. So I pumped and gave her breastmilk in bottles until she was about a year. And when feeding her a bottle, you had to hold her a specific way... with her head on your knees and her legs toward you. Then you'd put your hand on her cheek and hold the bottle with your other hand. I think (but I'm not sure...who knows?) that she was already so curious that nursing or being cradled close to you was too confining. She wanted to see what was going on around her. Fortunately, instead of getting pickier when she became a toddler, she has slowly become less and less picky. She still has her favorites, but she'll eat most things now.
She loves art. She likes to draw, paint, color and play with playdough. Right now, we are taking an edible art class on Tuesdays and she really looks forward to it.
I've been trying to think what her "obsessions" or extreme interests are (for Ella, it's dinosaurs and rocks) and can't really name any. She loves to be outside, to be swinging, riding or running/moving. But so far, I can't think of any subjects that she absolutely loves. I guess animals. She loves the zoo, especially the elephants. Ands she loves books about animals. But that's all that comes to mind.
She is my sweet, smart, beautiful girl. I can hardly believe she is already five!
TTA: taste
I love fruit! Almost every kind. I love summer because of the watermelon, strawberries, cantaloupe, and raspberries. I bought a flat of raspberries on Friday and we've eaten all but one little carton. Yum! I also love mangoes, pineapple, apples (especially with peanut butter), oranges, pears, nectarines and plums. I don't love bananas and don't like blueberries or papayas. But other than that, I love just about all fruit.
I love ice cream. I can eat it all year long. I especially love rocky road and mint chocolate chip. But I like most flavors (but not most fruity flavors, ironically!)
I love hot chocolate. Drinking hot chocolate is my favorite part of winter.
I like most anything with chocolate... chocolate chip cookies, chocolate cake, pies, candy bars, etc.
Other things that I really like:
- broccoli cheese soup
- chips and salsa
- scones
- chimichangas
- Biaggi's chicken florentine soup (to die for!)
- enchiladas
- pecan pie
- fruit salad
- stuffing
- homemade mashed potatoes
- homemade rolls/bread
I'm sure there are other things, but these are some of my absolute favorites.
Yum! It makes me want to go eat, even though I'm really not hungry.
Sunday, June 22, 2008
super marathoner
In addition, she raised $5,800 for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society! Way to go Suzy! My sister is amazing!
Guilt
But it seems that I get less done since having two kids...and probably less once number three makes her debut. Most of Michelle's 70 pages were done before Ella was born. Her album of 18 months to 5 years is only about 20 pages. I've just slowed way down in how much I get done.
Don't worry I'm not feeling that guilty... just a little. The main thing is that I have preserved a lot of memories and both of my girls know that I love them.
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Saturday Scrapper
The All day crop is fun. They serve lunch and dinner plus have snacks and a teacher on hand to help you. And they give away prizes. ...Everyone gets a small prize (they have a basket with a bunch of stuff valued at $3-$5 and you choose what you want.) Then they give away 2 big prizes. And today, surprise, surprise, I was the lucky winner of one of the big prizes. I got a bag that had a t-shirt, an 8 1/2 by 11 album, a train shaped chipboard album, and a package of coordinating products. The total value is about $50 worth of stuff. Pretty cool!
I find it hard to get much scrapbooking done at home. Too many interruptions and other pressing things to do. So I like to go the Friday night crops (6 hours) and the all day crops. I'm much more productive.
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Some facts about Ella... just because
When she is pretending, she has a different voice, sort of a "mommy" voice.
We always get compliments/comments about her big brown eyes.
She loves rocks... she has an obsession with rocks. Everywhere we go, she bends over and picks up rocks. Big ones, shiny ones, smooth ones, rough ones, tiny ones, pretty ones, plain ones. Perhaps she'll be a geologist? She has loved rocks since the time she learned to walk. She used to make me so nervous, because she'd stuff one or more in her mouth and then have more in each hand. As a new walker, I was afraid she'd trip and swallow one.She is a talker. Often, people think she's quiet/shy. She is around strangers sometimes. And around a lot of men. But she can talk. She had about 50 words by the time she was 15 months (i kept track) and even a couple of two and 3 word phrases like "wan up momma". Now she talks and talks.
She calls me "Mama" and Alfredo "daddy".
She hates getting her hair brushed and styled.
She loves books ("bookies"... that's her term for books). She loves to be read to, but she also "reads" to herself a lot.
She is so proud to be a big girl and be going to preschool...even though she always cries when I drop her off and tries to cling to me. But she does fine once I'm gone.
She can be very stubborn. She knows what she wants and doesn't like when she doesn't get her way. (Oh well!)
She loves to talk to people on the phone (thanks to so many of you for indulging her) but when she's ready to be done, she usually starts talking in jibberish. Then she'll hand the phone back to me. (But good luck prying it from her fingers before then!)
She loves dinosaurs. Her favorite movie is Land Before Time (any of them...but thankfully, we only one one... The Great Day of the Fliers). She loves books that have dinosaurs, especially Dinosaurumpus. She has foam dinosaurs that she loves to play with. She loves dinosaurs.
doctor visit
ouch
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
TTA: favorite smells
*food being cooked on a grill
*fresh bread coming out of the oven
*Bath and Body Works soaps...especially Mango Mandarin
*newborn babies
*strawberries
*roses
*rainstorms
*the forest
Monday, June 16, 2008
who's the boss?
I wanted to laugh, but refrained and said, "Oh, who is your boss?" Her reply: "Daddy is."
Slide Show of Daya's Birthday!
Alfredo's cousin's daughter, Dayanara, turned five. Her birthday party was Saturday. The girls had a great time at the party. We also were able to visit with many of Alfredo's relatives. Michelle has gotten quite good at hitting pinatas... she shows it no mercy.
Sunday, June 15, 2008
You're the best dad ever!
Alfredo does so much for our family, but yesterday he just about outdid himself. Here are all the things he did for our family in one day, after working at least 55 hours the previous week:
*before the girls and I even woke up, Alfredo went to Lowes. Our toilet handle had broken a couple of days before, and he fixed it.
*He also bought and installed two new swings for the girls on their swing set.
*he mowed the front and back yard.
*he figured out why the maintenance light was on in the minivan and fixed it
*a friend had a trampoline that he didn't want, so Alfredo went and picked it up, brought it home and assembled it and spent some time jumping with the girls
*he took us to his cousin's birthday party and took many of the photos for me during the party, played with the girls, and helped them have fun... also, during the party, his elderly grandmother got tired, so he took her home and then came back for us.
(Michelle loves the new trampoline and told everyone about it at church today!)
We love you! You ARE the best dad ever.
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
April's Reads... for my records
When Secrets Die by Lynn Hightower (both of these first two were about Munchausen by Proxy syndrome... both novels, both interesting)
Point of Entry by Peter Schecter (novel about terrorism)
The Hungry Tide by Amitav Ghosh (set in India, about tigers and dolphins, quite good)
Persian Pickle Club
Spellman Files by Lisa Lutz (so-so)
Havoc by Jack DuBrul
strange dream
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
tagged
1. What I was doing 10 years ago:
I had just graduated from BYU. I was just about to start my first teaching job. (I hadn't been hired yet at this point, but my first year I taught sixth grade at Mountain View. I then moved down to fifth grade for the next four years.) I was still living in Provo at the time, enjoying my last few months with my roommates, working part time, interviewing for jobs, and wondering where life would take me. My hope/plan was to find a job near Provo and stay near my friends but the job market seemed pretty saturated with teachers. I also followed leads in Granite and Jordan district. In Salt Lake District, all I did was mail in my application/file. They just stumbled upon me somehow. Boy am I glad now. I love where I live and I think Salt Lake District is the best.
2. What 5 things are on my to-do list for today:
Well, as it is 10:30 at night, my to do list for today is to go to bed soon. But here is what today's to-do list entailed:
take girls to preschool, clean out their old room (organize toys in their new room, take unwanted things to DI, vaccuum, etc), have Bryce and Sylas over to play, take girls to our "edible art class", go to Xaria's birthday party, go to Young Women's (and yes, I realize that is more than 5 things)
3. Snacks I enjoy:
Ice cream. Granola bars. Fruit, especially watermelon and strawberries and nectarines. Yogurt. Apples with peanut butter. Nuts, especially almonds. Every once in awhile, popcorn.
4. Things I would do if I was a billionaire:
Pay off my house. (Alfredo would say move to a different state and to a bigger house, but really I'm pretty content here). Make a few changes to my house (new carpet, new tile ... I currently have linoleum, add a garage with an extra bedroom on top). Quit teaching until my kids were bigger. (or perhaps forever, but probably not). Take some vacations/travel. Give some money to Alfredo's family in Costa Rica and, if they'd take it, to my family. Give most of the money away to charities and/or the church's humanitarian efforts.
5. Places I have lived:
Utah(birth to 3 months, age 18 to present). Arizona (3 months old until 18 years old).
TTA--Favorite sounds
I love hearing my children talk (almost all of the time). It is amazing how their language skills evolve from just crying to babbling to single words to short phrases to complex sentences with often crazy, silly or interesting things to say. Side note: Ella has a regular talking voice and a "make believe/pretend" voice. When ever she is pretending, she shifts into this higher pitched voice as if she is the mom. It's too cute.
I love hearing waves lapping or crashing on the beach. (Since the beach has been featured in both of these Tuesday Tell Alls so far, you might think I visit the beach often. In fact, I have been to the beach less than a dozen times in my life, and yet I love it and wish I could go there more.)
Music. ... I find some classical music very soothing and calming, although I don't listen to it much. I mostly love/relate to/listen to country music. Not all country music, but most of what I listen to is country. Often it seems to have lyrics that I can relate to.
When Michelle was a toddler, I loved to listen to Michelle's cry. I hated that she was crying, but she had the best cry I've ever heard. She would totally trill her r's as she cried. In a big group of kids, I always knew whether it was Michelle crying or not, because no one cried like her. She has her daddy's spanish blood. She doesn't cry like that anymore, and I'm not sure if I ever captured it on video, but I hope I did. It was priceless.
I love to hear Ella say "Mama." She has never really called me Mommy, but always "mama". There is something so amazing about the way she says that one word... not just that she's talking to me, although of course that is a big part of it, but there's something so sweet about it.
I'm sure more will come to me later, but for now, these are my favorite sounds.
Saturday, June 7, 2008
handy manny... i mean Michelle
a new room
Check out the lamp. We think it is very cool and totally matches the polka dots on the bedspreads and the canopies.
Michelle, of course, struck a pose (or 10) to show off her new room.
Even Ella was willing to smile and pose for the camera. She loves her new room. We'll see how actually sleeping in it goes tonight. We promised they could keep their lamp on all night.
One more shot from a different angle.
cool math trick
So we learned other ways that kids might think about problems or that might help kids be more successful at solving problems. At the very end the presenter shared a cool trick that works... but I don't really know why. I hope I can explain it. It's called the Russian Peasant Method of multiplication.
Take any two numbers to be multiplied. half the first and double the second until you reach one. (If you get a half, say 12.5, just write 12 and keep going).
For example: 24 x 25
half is 12 50 doubled
half is 6 100 doubled
half is 3 200
half is 1.5 so write 1 400 Now cross out any that start with an even number on the left (so you cross out 24, 12, and 6.) Now add the second half of the problem (the part on the right so 200 +400) This is your answer.... 600
Here's an easier number:
8 x 7
half is 4 14
half is 2 28
half is 1 56
cross out the lines that have 8, 4, and 2.... so the answer is 56
Hope that makes sense. I recognize that it isn't that fast and I don't know why it works. But it was pretty cool. Try it. You'll be surprised.
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
big girl
TTA: Favorite sights
Monday, June 2, 2008
cell phones
Also, if you are interested in donating, see the link on the side. Her race is June 21 in Anchorage, Alaska.
Here's a few more details about it, from an email from Suzy:
I just wanted to give you an update on my marathon training and fundraising for the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.
My training is going great! I've been doing 21-mile runs for the past few weeks, and I feel ready to run the full 26.2 miles (June 21 in Anchorage). Here are a few stats:
Time to run 21 miles: 180 minutes (3 hours)—approximately an 8 ½-minute mile
Total marathon training miles I've run (starting 2/11/08): 447.5
Pairs of shoes I've worn out during that time: 3
My fundraising is also going well. I've raised 76% of my goal of $4,900. The money I'm raising will support blood cancer research and provide patient services to those with blood cancer.
If you haven't had an opportunity to donate yet, it's not too late! You can make a tax-deductible donation quickly and securely by going to my personal fundraising Web site: http://www.active.com/donate/tntdms/suzyqbills. (At my Web site, you can also learn more about the Society, blood cancers, and the two individuals I've dedicated my training to.)
Every donation, no matter the amount, will help those running the truly long distances—those battling blood cancer. Thanks in advance for your generosity. And on behalf of the true marathoners, thank you, too.
writing
Here she is, still in her nightgown, busily writing.
Her strip of paper with Ella written. She wrote this all on her own.
I'm impressed. She wrote her J backwards and one of the N's, but she's doing pretty well I think. My sweet girl.